August 25, 2014

Taking the time to write a page feels like I’m taking a pretty significant bit of time, but then again, I also have taken quite a bit of time to do very little work today – this last hour has to be INCREDIBLY productive!  I’ve really appreciated the environment of Masters, it feels supportive with all the people who are telling you to go ahead and get what you need because they’re here to then do what it takes on the back end.  I’m also loving the luxury of having an office with a GIANT desk and all the resources that a private school offers that you don’t get in urban places.  The amount of freedom I have here to explore and make things better means that I have the tools to do a phenomenal job.  It is a lot of pressure to perform, but I think I’m up for the challenge. 

I am also pretty proud of the fact that I’ve been consistently running/eating well and that it shows on the scale.  Losing 10 pounds didn’t seem like a huge accomplishment when compared to the total 30 pound goal, but it means that I’ve made some significant progress.  Looking at the pictures online of what five pounds of fat looks like means that it is a measurable goal and a large amount of weight to have been carrying around and to shed.  A big part of that success is having a ‘partner in crime’ in Sach, who helps me daily with motivating me to run and stay on track with the journey.  It’s been wonderful to also see him make progress and be able to motivate him.  The fact that we started in such similar places makes it much easier to work on the same goal together.  The moments that I want to hold onto in this process are the small successes – shopping and realizing that I’ve successfully gone down to a size 6 dress, or that Sach’s pants are now a 32 rather than a 34.  It’s those measurable goals that come with such a great benefit that will help me continue to fight against my own weaknesses for chocolate or lots of dessert.  Additionally to that even, continuing to take this journey involves recognizing that it’s going to be a life-long process (which doesn’t mean no dessert ever, but also is never going to mean eat all the dessert you want) since both Sach and I have similar genes in the fat storing parts of our bodies. 

I can’t quite believe where we have progressed to in our lives, where we’re debating whether to get married on paper now or next summer (when we actually get married).  When did I grow to become a person who is thinking about a marriage as something that’s coming in the future?  I think that we have a strong foundation on which to build our lives going forward and that the communication we have between us will carry us through the more difficult times.  That being said, I’m still a bit nervous about Sach and I living in the same place in New York next year, but I’ll just have to take that adventure one step at a time. 

I’ve also realized that I’m a better person when I’m rested and have the space for expression – and I need to make sure I take time to do that even when I’m feeling stressed (a personal 10 seconds for myself perhaps).  It doesn’t mean I don’t stand up for myself when it’s important, but it means that I take time to ground myself and lose the anger.